PSYCHESYNC Coaching and Counseling

4800 Sugar Grove Ste 620 E and F, Stafford, TX 7747

Monterrey, Mexico (Mitras Central)

Email: melodyalleninfo@gmail.com

Ph. 832-338-9971 Fax. 832-369-7346

HOLIDAY PARTY

DECEMBER 14, 2024

6PM-9PM

ALL ARE INVITED


In-Person, Telephonic and Video conferencing sessions available. Licensed in Texas, Louisiana, Nevada and Arizona for psychotherapy

****Note:Psychesync provides mental health care and services using solely a virtual platform in Arizona, Nevada, and Lousiana.

 TO SCHEDULE, CLICK HERE: https://schedulewithmelodyallen.acuityscheduling.com/

Prospective Clients,

Thank you so much for your interest in therapy and my services. Sometimes there is a 1 month wait to see me, with exceptions for some EAPs (employee assistance program). If you are not able to wait, please do not schedule.

Note: You can always check back with the scheduling system for earlier times that may become available to schedule changes and cancellations. If you decide that you would like to work with me ongoing, feel free to book future appointments (like 3 or 4) in advance on the scheduler to assure a spot.

Melody Allen, LPC-S 

What to expect in a session:

  • Tailored to You: Each session will vary based on your specific challenges and my treatment style.

  • Bring an open mind and a journal

  • Exploring Issues: You’ll have the opportunity to discuss the issues that led you to seek counseling.

  • Skill Development: We’ll work on developing the skills necessary for positive change and critical thinking.

  • Monitoring Progress: Throughout therapy, we’ll track your progress toward your goals.

  • Direct Reflections and Humor: I’m an assertive therapist and work to give you poignant, direct and honest feedback that you can use to make change. My feedback is inforned by empirical data from my work as a behavioral analysis. My message delivery is a mix of seriousness and humor so that the session have a nice blend of both.

PSYCHOTHERAPY SESSIONS:

My passion lies in helping couples families and individuals navigate tough, inconvenient, intimate and imaginal conversations. The results lead to better self knowledge and improved quality of life. The result from this deep work brings forth knowledge and understanding of the world in which we interact.

I serve couples, adults, and individuals

Popular Topics:

  • Divorce, Blended family issues, Co-parenting, Parenting, Couples issues

  • Work Stress

  • Family Constellation Sessions for groups and individuals

  • Men’s Issues

  • Women’s Issues

  • Marital conflict, Dating, Singles issues, Infidelity

  • Depression, Anxiety

  • Pre-marital Therapy

  • Intimacy Building with Couples

  • Infertility and Postpartum related Depression (trained by Postpartum International)

  • Individual therapy

  • EAP referrals, EAP management referrals

  • FMLA and short-term disability evaluations and paperwork

Testimonials:

 Psychesync served as a haven during an emotionally turbulent time in my life. I was able to ground myself fully in a place of nurturing. As I became more centered, I was able to step into a space of deep introspection. Melody facilitated wonderful processes that enabled me to confront emergent issues safely while feeling completely supported. I would recommend Psychesync to anyone who is looking to gain greater insight into who they are, and their purpose. If the goal is to be as whole of an individual as you possibly can, then this is a great place to start.

-Client's name is omitted for confidentiality

 

I am at a breaking point in my relationship of 29 years. Our sessions are helping me to see patterns of behavior that are preventing me from being an emotionally mature person.  Melody has helped me to start looking deeper inside to find out who I really am and what I want.

She is helping me to see that I can’t change other people but I can change myself if I want to.  I feel that I have a long way to go but she is helping me to discover what I need to have a good relationship with others.

-Client's name is omitted for confidentiality

              EVENING AND WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS
In-Person, Telephonic and Video conferencing sessions available. Licensed in Texas, Lousiana, Nevada, and Arizona.

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WHO AM I AS A CLINICIAN ?

Melody Allen M.A. LPC-S

Licensed in Texas, Louisiana, Nevada,and Arizona

“Self-Knowledge is a commodity”

I am a Master's Level Clinician in Counseling.I work with families, couples, and individual seeking life change. I also host conversations with men about masculinity, in an ongoing men’s group.

My Ph.D. research is focused on the correlation between epigenetics, ancestral knowledge and family therapy. 

My theoretical style is a blend of systems theory, CBT, depth psychology, and positive psychology. In the tradition of depth psychology, which incorporates the German forefathers of psychology— Carl Jung and Sigmund Freud— and how these theories matriculate in social, religious, cultural, and mythical aesthetics. Personally, I have integrated this psychological knowledge into my love and respect for indigenous cultures that have and continue to educate me as a therapist. Hellinger Systemic Constellation work are very present in my clinical methodology.

 

EDUCATION

  • Telemental Health Certification

  • EMDR

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

  • Hypnotherapy Certification

  • IMAGO Module I and II

  • LPC-S Clinical Supervision Certification under Ellen Melton

  • Motivational Interviewing

  • Pacifica Graduate Institute, Carpinteria, CA Present-Ph.Dc in Integrative Healing Arts

  • Coach U Graduate

  • Fielding, Carpinteria, CA Post Grad. Certificate Teaching in the Virtual Classroom

  • Pacifica Graduate Institute, Carpinteria, CA M.A. in Counseling Psychology

  • Worklife Institute, Houston, TX Basic Mediator Training/ Advanced Mediator Training

  • The Hellinger Institute, Washington, D.C. Hellinger Systemic Constellations Certification

  • Jacob and Sieglende International Summer Program (Hellinger Family Constellations), Munich, Germany

  • Prep Pre-marital Education

  • High Conflict Diversion Parenting

  • Forensic Child Interviewing

  • Barbara Brennan School of Healing- 6 years, BIP Practitioner in Texas and Mexico

LANGUAGES

       English

       Spanish

LOCATION:

  • 4800 Sugar Grove Suite 620, Stafford, Tx 77477

  • Monterrey, Mexico, Mitras Centro

  • ph. 832-338-9971,whatsapp as well

  • TO SCHEDULE, CLICK HERE: https://schedulewithmelodyallen.acuityscheduling.com/

  • Saturday and Sunday Appointments Available

  • Need to ask a general question about scheduling? Email me at melodyalleninfo@gmail.com. Please do not email me about session content, that should be addressed in the context of a session.

 

 

Counseling Sessions are offered in various ways

in-person, by telephone and video conferencing  

 

Office Hours
weekday and weekend appointments avaiLAble

Location

 4800 Sugar Grove Ste 620 E & F

Stafford, TX 77477

 832.338.9971

HOURS:

9am-8pm Monday-Friday

9-3pm Saturday

10-4pm Sunday

 TO SCHEDULE, CLICK HERE: https://schedulewithmelodyallen.acuityscheduling.com/

By Appt only

Prospective Clients: Thank you so much for your interest in therapy and my services. Sometimes there is a 1-2 month wait to see me, with exceptions for some EAPs (employee assistance programs). If you are not able to wait please do not schedule.

Note: You can always check back with the scheduling system for earlier times that may become available to schedule changes and cancellations.

Melody Allen, LPC-S

24 Hour Cancellation Policy

If you cancel or change your appointment more than 24 hours in advance, there is no penalty. You can do all of these steps through the online scheduler.

If you cancel your appointment less than 24 hours in advance, your session fee will have to be paid before you can reschedule.If you are using eap for your session, all eaps have their own rules (check with your perspective eap rules of engagement) No changes are permitted less than 24 hours in advance so you'll need to cancel your session and then purchase a new session in order to make any changes.

No Same day session format changes

NOTE: If I don't answer during business hours, I am with a client. Please feel free to schedule below. all other inquiries can email me @melodyalleninfo@gmail.com

 

Psychesync , 4800 Sugar Grove Suite 620E, 77477, 832-338-9971

 TO SCHEDULE, CLICK HERE: https://schedulewithmelodyallen.acuityscheduling.com/

Office Policies & General Information Agreement for Psychotherapy Services or Informed Consent for Psychotherapy

This form provides you, the client, with information that is additional to that detailed in the Notice of Privacy Practices and it is subject to HIPAA preemptive analysis.

CONFIDENTIALITY: All information disclosed within sessions and the written records pertaining to those sessions are confidential and may not be revealed to anyone without your written permission except where disclosure is required by law.

WHEN DISCLOSURE IS REQUIRED OR MAY BE REQUIRED BY LAW: Some of the circumstances where disclosure is required or may be required by law are: where there is a reasonable suspicion of child, dependent, or elder abuse or neglect; where a client presents a danger to self, to others, to property, or is gravely disabled; or when a client's family members communicate to Melody Allen that the client presents a danger to others. Disclosure may also be required pursuant to a legal proceeding by or against you. If you place your mental status at issue in litigation initiated by you, the defendant may have the right to obtain the psychotherapy records and/or testimony by Melody Allen. In couple and family therapy, or when different family members are seen individually, even over a period of time, confidentiality and privilege do not apply between the couple or among family members, unless otherwise agreed upon. Melody Allen will use her clinical judgment when revealing such information. Melody Allen will not release records to any outside party unless she is authorized to do so by all adult parties who were part of the family therapy, couple therapy or other treatment that involved more than one adult client.

EMERGENCY: If there is an emergency during therapy, or in the future after termination, where Melody Allen becomes concerned about your personal safety, the possibility of you injuring someone else, or about you receiving proper psychiatric care, she will do whatever she can within the limits of the law, to prevent you from injuring yourself or others and to ensure that you receive the proper medical care. For this purpose, she may also contact the person whose name you have provided on the biographical sheet.

 

LITIGATION LIMITATION: Due to the nature of the therapeutic process and the fact that it often involves making a full disclosure with regard to many matters which may be of a confidential nature, it is agreed that, should there be legal proceedings (such as, but not limited to divorce and custody disputes, injuries, lawsuits, etc.), neither you nor your attorney(s), nor anyone else acting on your behalf will call on Melody Allen to testify in court or at any other proceeding, nor will the disclosure of the psychotherapy records be requested unless otherwise agreed upon.

CONSULTATION: Melody Allen consults regularly with other professionals regarding his clients; however, each client's identity remains completely anonymous and confidentiality is fully maintained.

E–MAILS, CELL PHONES, COMPUTERS, AND FAXES: It is very important to be aware that computers and email communication can be relatively easily accessed by unauthorized people and hence can compromise the privacy and confidentiality of such communication. Faxes can easily be sent erroneously to the wrong address. Emails, in particular, are vulnerable to unauthorized access due to the fact that Internet servers have unlimited and direct access to all emails that go through them. It is important that you be aware that emails, faxes, and important texts are part of the medical records. Additionally, Melody Allen’s emails are not encrypted. Melody Allen's computers are equipped with a firewall, a virus protection, and a password and she also backs up all confidential information from her computers on a regular basis. Please notify Melody Allen if you decide to avoid or limit in any way the use of any or all communication devices, such as email, cell phone, or faxes. If you communicate confidential or private information via email, Melody Allen will assume that you have made an informed decision, will view it as your agreement to take the risk that such communication may be intercepted, and will honor your desire to communicate on such matters via email. Please do not use email or faxes for emergencies.

 

TELEPHONE & EMERGENCY PROCEDURES: If you need to contact Melody Allen between sessions, please leave a message at the answering service (832) 338-9971 and your call will be returned as soon as possible. Melody Allen checks her messages a few times during the daytime only, unless she is out of town. If an emergency situation arises, indicate it clearly in your message and if you need to talk to someone right away call Psychiatric Emergency Services. Please do not use email or faxes for emergencies. Melody Allen does not always check her email or faxes daily.

PAYMENTS & INSURANCE REIMBURSEMENT: Clients are expected to pay the full fee $175 or co-payment per session at the beginning of each session. Telephone conversations, site visits, writing and reading of reports, consultation with other professionals, release of information, reading records, longer sessions, travel time, etc. will be charged at the same rate, unless indicated and agreed upon otherwise. Please notify Melody Allen if any problems arise during the course of therapy regarding your ability to make timely payments. Phone sessions over 15 minutes will be charged the full session rate. Follow-up calls for 15 minutes are free and based on Melody Allen’s availability.

Clients who carry insurance should remember that professional services are rendered and charged to the clients and not to the insurance companies. Unless agreed upon differently, Melody Allen will submit to your insurance company for reimbursement. Not all issues/ conditions/problems, which are dealt with in psychotherapy, are reimbursed by insurance companies. It is your responsibility to verify the specifics of your coverage. If your account is overdue (unpaid) and there is no written agreement on a payment plan, Melody Allen can use legal or other means (courts, collection agencies, etc.) to obtain payment.

MEDIATION & ARBITRATION: All disputes arising out of, or in relation to, this agreement to provide psychotherapy services shall first be referred to mediation, before, and as a pre- condition of, the initiation of arbitration. The mediator shall be a neutral third party chosen by agreement of Melody Allen and the client(s). The cost of such mediation, if any, shall be split equally, unless otherwise agreed upon. In the event that mediation is unsuccessful, any unresolved controversy related to this agreement should be submitted to and settled by binding arbitration in Texas in accordance with the rules of the American Arbitration Association which are in effect at the time the demand for arbitration is filed. Notwithstanding the foregoing, in the event that your account is overdue (unpaid) and there is no agreement on a payment plan, Melody Allen can use legal means (court, collection agency, etc.) to obtain payment. The prevailing party in arbitration or collection proceedings shall be entitled to recover a reasonable sum as and for attorney's fees. In the case of arbitration, the arbitrator will determine that sum.

THE PROCESS OF THERAPY

EVALUATION AND SCOPE OF PRACTICE: Participation in therapy can result in a number of benefits to you, including improving interpersonal relationships and resolution of the specific concerns that led you to seek therapy. Working toward these benefits, however, requires effort on your part. Psychotherapy requires your very active involvement, honesty, and openness in order to change your thoughts, feelings, and/or behavior. Melody Allen will ask for your feedback and views on your therapy, its progress, and other aspects of the therapy and will expect you to respond openly and honestly. Sometimes more than one approach can be helpful in dealing with a certain situation. During evaluation or therapy, remembering or talking about unpleasant events, feelings, or thoughts can result in you experiencing considerable discomfort or strong feelings of anger, sadness, worry, fear, etc., or experiencing anxiety, depression, insomnia, etc. Melody Allen may challenge some of your assumptions or perceptions or propose different ways of looking at, thinking about, or handling situations, which can cause you to feel very upset, angry, depressed, challenged, or disappointed. Attempting to resolve issues that brought you to therapy in the first place, such as personal or interpersonal relationships, may result in changes that were not originally intended. Psychotherapy may result in decisions about changing behaviors, employment, substance use, schooling, housing, or relationships. Sometimes a decision that is positive for one family member is viewed quite negatively by another family member. Change will sometimes be easy and swift, but more often it will be slow and even frustrating. There is no guarantee that psychotherapy will yield positive or intended results. During the course of therapy, Melody Allen is likely to draw on various psychological approaches according, in part, to the problem that is being treated and her assessment of what will best benefit you. These approaches include, but are not limited to, behavioral, cognitive-behavioral, cognitive, psychodynamic, existential, system/family, developmental (adult, child, family), humanistic or psycho-educational. Melody Allen provides neither custody evaluation recommendation nor medication or prescription recommendation nor legal advice, as these activities do not fall within her scope of practice.

TREATMENT PLANS: Within a reasonable period of time after the initiation of treatment, Melody Allen will discuss with you her working understanding of the problem, treatment plan, therapeutic objectives, and her view of the possible outcomes of treatment. If you have any unanswered questions about any of the procedures used in the course of your therapy, their possible risks, Melody Allen's expertise in employing them, or about the treatment plan, please ask and you will be answered fully. You also have the right to ask about other treatments for your condition and their risks and benefits.

TERMINATION: As set forth above, after the first couple of meetings, Melody Allen will assess if she can be of benefit to you. Melody Allen does not accept clients who, in her opinion, she cannot help. In such a case, she will give you a number of referrals whom you can contact. If at any point during psychotherapy, Melody Allen assesses that she is not effective in helping you reach the therapeutic goals or that you are non-compliant, she is obligated to discuss it with you and, if appropriate, to terminate treatment. In such a case, she would give you a number of referrals that may be of help to you. If you request it and authorize it in writing, Melody Allen will talk to the psychotherapist of your choice in order to help with the transition. If, at any time, you want another professional's opinion or wish to consult with another therapist, Melody Allen will assist you with referrals, and, if she has your written consent, she will provide her or him with the essential information needed. You have the right to terminate therapy at any time. If you choose to do so, and if appropriate, Melody Allen will offer to provide you with names of other qualified professionals.

DUAL RELATIONSHIPS: Despite a popular perception, not all dual or multiple relationships are unethical or avoidable. Therapy never involves sexual or any other dual relationship that impairs Melody Allen's objectivity, clinical judgment or can be exploitative in nature. Melody Allen will assess carefully before entering into non-sexual and non-exploitative dual relationships with clients. It is important to realize that in some communities, particularly small towns, military bases, university campus, etc., multiple relationships are either unavoidable or expected. Melody Allen will never acknowledge working with anyone without her written permission. Many clients have chosen Melody Allen as their therapist because they knew her before they entered therapy with her, and/or are personally aware of her professional work and achievements. Nevertheless, Melody Allen will discuss with you the often-existing complexities, potential benefits and difficulties that may be involved in dual or multiple relationships. Dual or multiple relationships can enhance trust and therapeutic effectiveness but can also detract from it and often it is impossible to know which ahead of time. It is your responsibility to advise Melody Allen if the dual or multiple relationships becomes uncomfortable for you in any way. Melody Allen will always listen carefully and respond to your feedback and will discontinue the dual relationship if she finds it interfering with the effectiveness of the therapy or your welfare and, of course, you can do the same at any time.

SOCIAL NETWORKING AND INTERNET SEARCHES: At times, I may conduct a web search on my clients before the beginning of therapy or during therapy. If you have concerns or questions regarding this practice, please discuss them with me. I do not accept friend requests from current or former clients on social networking sites, such as Facebook, Twitter, Linked in, Instagram. I believe that adding clients as friends on these sites and/or communicating via such sites is likely to compromise their privacy and confidentiality. For this same reason, I request that clients not communicate with me via any interactive or social networking web sites.

CANCELLATION: Since the scheduling of an appointment involves the reservation of time specifically for you, a minimum of 24 hours notice is required for re-scheduling, changing session format, or canceling an appointment. Unless we reach a different agreement, the full fee will be charged for sessions missed without such notification. If the cancellation is not 24 hours in advance the fee is non-refundable.

I have read the above Office Policies and General Information, Agreement for Psychotherapy Services or Informed Consent for Psychotherapy carefully (a total of 7 pages); I understand them and agree to comply with them. You attending a session expresses agreement to the above terms.

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BILLING

 
  •  TO SCHEDULE, CLICK HERE: https://schedulewithmelodyallen.acuityscheduling.com/

  • Fee for service rate $175 (as of 1/1/22) cash rate or insurance rate (varies by plan)

  • Insurance fees (co-pay) vary by plan- full list below, EAP benefits, call your HR dept. for more details

  • For co-pay, the amount of this fee is on the face of your insurance card. This payment can be made via HSA, credit card or cash

  • Accepted Payment Methods: Cash, Mastercard, Square, Visa, Health Spending Accounts (HSA)

  • 24 hr Cancellation fee . If you don't cancel within this guideline you will be charged a full session fee of $175.

Accepted Insurance and eap Plans:

    • Beacon EAP and Beacon Insurance

    • ACI Speciality Benefits

    • Humana (LOA)

    • Aetna Insurance

    • Concern EAP

    • UT EAP

    • ESI EAP

    • Baylor EAP

    • Care Bridge EAP

    • Deer Oaks EAP

    • Bluecross and BlueShield Insurance

    • LifeSynch

    • Interface EAP

    • United Healthcare/ Optum EAP and Insurance

    • Alliance Work Partners EAP

    • Cigna EAP and Insurance

    • EAP Works

    • Health Advocates

    • Workplace Options

    • Kepro EAP

    • TriWest for Veterans (branch of Tricare)

    • Lyra EAP

    • Curalinc/ Support linc eap

    • Magellan

FREE SESSIONS: WHAT ARE EAP BENEFITS From your job:

FREE SESSIONS GRANTED BY YOUR EMPLOYER AS PART OF THE COMPANY WELLNESS PLAN. CALL YOU HR DEPARTMENT TO SEE IF YOUR EMPLOYER OFFERS THESE BENEFITS.

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Address: 12711 US-59, Stafford, TX 77477

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 Systemic Constellations Experiential Wksp

YOU CAN WATCH A DEMO OF THE TECHNIQUE AND CONCEPT ON NETFLIX: SEX, LOVE , AND GOOP ( EPISODE 5). THIS WORKSHOP IS A TOTALLY EXPERIENTIAL: THE EXTENT AND UNDERSTANDING OF THIS GROUP WORK HAS TO BE DONE VIA IN- PERSON PARTICIPATION.

REPRESENTATIVE FEES DUE AT ENROLLMENT

MAIN CLIENT FEE: $350.00 DUE AT ENROLLMENT

2024 Saturdays

Upcoming Dates

Next One….. RSVP if you are coming for sure… we depend on a firm YES October 12, 2024

Time: 10am-1 pm

Bring an open mind and snack to share, here are some ideas:

  • Bananas, Oranges, Apples, Berries

  • Muffins

  • Donuts

  • Breakfast tacos

  • Cookies

  • Nuts

  • Cupcakes

  • Crackers

  • If you can’t make this one, another opportunity is Sat.Nov 9, Sat.Dec 7 . —fast track your healing journey !!!!!!!!!!!

2025

Dates: Feb 22, 2024, 10am-1pm.


Come and be a representative or have your own. 

RSVP Limited seating 20 participants

3 Hr commitment

email: melodyalleninfo@gmail.com to register

 

 

Description: A German created methodology based on family systems theory. It helps clients sort through hidden or unseen family dynamics in an experiential format.

Systemic Constellations can expose intergenerational dynamics within families that are behind unconscious entanglements. Some areas Systemic Constellations explore are the early death of a parent or sibling, the exclusion of a family member, violence done by or to a family member, multiple marriages, abortions, miscarriages, active military duty, hidden loyalties, parentification, and history of domestic violence. This experiential workshop can help  resolve these family dynamics and restore balance to the family unit. 

Everyone attending the workshop is able to observe and feel the effect of the entanglements and subsequent resolutions.

http://www.bbc.com/news/health-25156510

Suggested Reading: The Healing Power of the Past by Bertold Ulsamer

Suggested Watch: Sex, Love, and Goop Episode 5, on NETFLIX and Another Self on NETFLIX

Client Testimonials :

"I find Hellinger Family Constellation work to be a powerful way to shift the dynamics in my relationships.  It does this in two ways.  First, I become aware of the ways in which I participate in the back and forth volley between me and
others.  While I cannot change another, I can certainly
witness how my reactions and responses contribute to the overall
relationship and make choices
to stay the same or to change.  Secondly, once
I've shifted and changed my
energy around and within a relationship, the
relationship itself transforms
almost as if by some unseen force.

”Melody is a skillful facilitator of this
work whose ability to tune into her
intuition and embody her physical presence
makes her a remarkable guide into
the places of disconnection between people.
I feel safe in Melody's care trusting that she has navigated these territories in her own life and
personal relationships thus qualifying her to have the
empathy and kindness
to support me as I explore these unknown places."

"Melody has a clean and simple way of tuning into what's at play through constellation work. Her ease and precision are gentle yet firm and she seems to side more with facts than fiction. Constellation work can be an incredible tool for sight. In my constellation, Melody helped me take a few steps closer toward my goal and she was present and supportive in the process. She heard what I needed, and asked for, and responded directly. My work with Melody left me feeling confident, heard, met, changed and capable. Thank you for an awesome and gentle experience." 

“Melody's constellation work has not only opened my eyes to the power in healing
but also the personal and familial issues that can be worked on through grace,
love, and understanding. There has been numerous times where her constellation
work has provided comfort when I was in emotional pain and actionable steps to
eventually (and quickly) work through the pain. She has shed new light on
therapy and it's integration into my life. To be honest, this is the only type
feel really works. I'm so thankful for her, her training, and her gift.”

 

MEN’S GROUP

NEXT Meeting, Friday, Oct 11, 2024 AT 6:00PM-8:00PM

INQUIRE TO ATTEND:
melodyalleninfo@gmail.com

4800 Sugar Grove Suite 620 E&F, Stafford TX, 77477

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Intensive Couples Therapy Lab

Transform Your Relationship

For serious couples committed to growth and healing

Course Details:

  • Fee: $525 per couple EARLY BIRD SPECIAL good until Dec.1, 2024 then $595.00

  • Payment: Tuition is due at registration; if needed payment plans are available.

  • Platform: Zoom

  • Duration: 6 weeks starting Saturday, March 8, 10am-12pm CST, 2-hour group session, 2 hours of homework a week

  • Participants: 8 couples

  • Makeup Policy: No makeups, but you can watch missed sessions on Zoom and complete corresponding assignments.

  • Payment: Tuition is due at registration; if needed payment plans are available.

Ready to take the next step? Enroll now!


*Email to register, melodyalleninfo@gmail.com.

🌟 Creating Pendulum Charts for Self-Healing 🌟

Dowsing/Pendulum Workshop

Instructor: Melody Allen, LPC-S

Unlock the power of self-healing through the art of dowsing! Join us for an enlightening workshop where you'll learn to create pendulum charts for personal growth and healing.

🗓 Date: February 8, 2025
🕙 Time: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
💵 Cost: $60 per person (Due at registration)
Time Commitment: 2 hours
🔧 What to Bring: A pendulum (available on Amazon)

All Sales Final

🔗 Register now and embark on your self-healing journey!

Pay here using this link: https://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/HE8L54LRYM98S


CULTURAL/SPIRITUAL CONSCIOUSNESS

GATHERINGs, RETREATS AND EVENTS

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MOnterrey, Mexico Nov 15-18, 2024

email me for official details and flyers


 It all started when…

When I became a follower, participant, and curious seeker of the multicultural healing diaspora. I have worked with many different cultures and traditions namely La Kota Sioux Indians, John of God in Brazil, Santeros in Cuba, Mother Meera in India, Amma, Hopis in Arizona, SRT practitioners, Barbara Brennan Healing Community, Fidencistas of Mexico, Bert Hellinger Constellations Community and many others that have shaped my techniques, thoughts and opinions about healing.

The healing arts have ignited a profound passion within me, expanding my worldview in remarkably powerful ways. I extend a heartfelt invitation for you to join me on this transformative healing journey.

 

DETAILS

I conduct energy healing sessions in two different formats.

Format 1: A virtual session where the work is done in combination with a therapeutic dialogue about the presenting problem you are having. This unique approach combines inquiry and energy work, drawing from both BHS (Barbara Brennan Healing Science) and SRT (Spiritual Response Therapy).

Cost: $175

 

Format 2: “Imagine a personalized phone session where you openly share your concerns. After our conversation, I step away to perform the necessary healing or ritual tailored specifically for you. These transformative sessions span from a single day to a week, depending on the intricacy of the issue. In the days that follow, you can reach out for feedback or any additional questions (in no more than 15 min calls scheduled online). I also proactively check in with you, sharing valuable insights that may arise during the healing process—insights you’ll find truly beneficial.

Cost $350 + based on the complexity of the matter.”

To prepare and make the most of your time and financial investment:

  1. Set Your Intention:

    • Reflect on the areas of your life that need attention. What challenges or patterns have been holding you back?

  2. Focus Areas:

    • Identify specific aspects you’d like to address during the session. Is it relationships, career, health, or personal growth? Be clear about what you want to explore.

  3. Embrace Curiosity:

    • Approach the session with an open mind. Curiosity invites new insights and allows you to explore hidden layers. Trust that the process will reveal what you need.

  4. Release Expectations:

    • Let go of rigid expectations. Instead, invite the energy of possibility. Sometimes, the most profound transformations occur when we surrender control.

  5. Visualize Your Ideal State:

    • Envision the life you desire. How does it feel? What does it look like? Use this vision as a compass during your session.


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Greetings,

As the voice of PSYCHESYNC, I would like to formally introduce this blog and myself. The purpose of this blog is to provide  posts from my base of knowledge that comes from life experience, training as a Barbara Healing Science Practitioner, a Hellinger Constellation Facilitator as wellas psychotherapist.

All insights, reflections, advice and/or suggestions on this site are just that. Please use the information you can and discard the rest. It is my sincere desire and intent to assist people in having better lives. I hope this blogging network will at as a complementary tool to reach your personal growth  goals.

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Main Street Station

Melody Allen 

 August 1, 2015

Main Street Station

This weekend I had the pleasure of attending wedding festivities of a close family friend. As commonly happens at weddings, I witnessed onlookers feeling a spectrum of emotion—happiness, grief, remorse, romance.  From the entire weekend, the lingering images of the roasting of the bride and groom at the rehearsal dinner inspired this entry.

The rehearsal dinner had approximately 150 attendees who traveled to Denver for the destination wedding. As the friends and family members shared stories about the betrothed, I felt the construction of a powerful gestalt focused on the importance of family. The messages from all who spoke centered on being a value added member of the family unit (the two larger families uniting and the actual marital union). It was a powerful energetic cocoon being woven around the couple.  I said to myself, “Wow this is what keeps couples together”. The “this” I was referring to was accountability, support, explicit reflection/feedback from others, and examples from other successful couples. In my opinion,  American cultural messages about individualization and self sufficiency isolate people from the support systems that can help them create their dreams. In this case, the couples’ dream is a long fulfilling, fun marriage.

Tapping into one’s support networks and resources can be the difference between success and failure in any of life’s endeavors.  Some examples of support networks are:

-          Educational Institutions

-          Religious Affiliations/ Institutions

-          Peer Groups

-          Networking and Professional Organizations

-          Therapists

-          Life Coaches

-          Friends

-          Family Members

-          Mentors

 

 

Resources, on the other hand, can be both inner and outer. Inner resources can include personality traits like integrity, resilience, perseverance, self –trust, humbleness, kindness and insightfulness.  Examples of learned inner resources are positive self-talk, prayer and meditation. Outer resources can include allies who support your dream, intellectual property that inspires nature, and public services (libraries, public parks, public transportation, highways, public beaches, museums). I’m sharing all this information to emphasize the power of relationships and the importance of identifying resources and support networks for dream-fulfillment.

-Melody Allen, M.A., LPC-S, EAS-C, CIR
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Age of Technology and Other Oddities

Melody Allen 

 August 1, 2015

 

Recently, I read a poignant article in the NY TImes that touted the pictures of the

iPhone commands Decline or Accept, in their perspective boxes. In summary, the

author recanted a story about a missed phone call from her dear friend. The author

purposefully avoided her friend's burdened call filled with lament about her divorce. After

days of dodging calls with Tweets, texts and other cyber madness she returned the call.

To her surprise and delight, the crisis was over, but she felt awful that she had failed to

be a more generous and attentive friend. After the bout of ill conscience, she vowed to

change her practice and be more available for personable contact between loved ones

and friends. After her new commitment, she noticed that people were not reaching out

to make contact. Her phone had not rung. Clearly, her previous avoidant

communicative patterns had trained her friends to keep their distance. The author

concluded that intimate distance was the destiny of those enslaved by the technological

world.

What I perceived the author missed was her participation in her own isolation. Her

environment was only reflecting her sustained practices with friends, colleagues and

acquaintances. In a world where materialism, intimacy divergence and competition are

our favored modus oprendi; close relationships become relics. What she missed is that

genuine, healthy relationships require a mutually agreed upon reciprocity, in order for

them to continue. This need for give and talk in relationship acts like bonding glue since

these relationships don't generally have the emotional strength of family connections.

This being said, in times of need, those closest to us may not be capable or available to

hear our woes and excitements. When these times come, it is necessary to have a

support team. One significant person on this team is a therapist.

In my clinical opinion, this NY Times article validated the need for psychotherapy or "talk

therapy ", as it is sometimes referred. In an age where quality time, for self and others,

is not a high priority; counseling acts a sacred space where one can share, complain,

grieve, and vent about private concerns. In this story, the distressed divorcee needed

someone to disclose the details of her divorce. While the reluctant friend needed

someone to talk about her inability to lovingly communicate clear boundaries: She did

not want to be her friend’s continued confidant about her divorce. Instead of expressing

this fact, she used non-direct communication to avoid person-to-person contact.

The therapeutic space affords three assurances: confidentiality, support, and rapport.

Some theorists believe much of the healing in therapy is derived from the nurturing, safe

relationship developed between the therapist and his/her client. The therapist is in

service of the client and is trained to be self-aware of biases, projections,transferences

and judgements that potentially cloud some of our closest alliances. It is my sincere

hope that the human need for contact leads more people to an experience of intimacy and understanding.

“Why aren’t you married? What’s wrong with you?” Uh, nothing!

By Melody Allen, MA, PMA, LPC-S
 
My healing journey started from my own outpouring of grief and misunderstanding about being a single woman older than 30.
 
When I talked with friends and family about this matter, I met responses ranging from “Have you prayed?” to “How are you sabotaging yourself?” and “Look who you’re picking!” I later realized that these unsupported comments arose from people’s inability to handle the anxiety of not having an answer for me. I decided to stop complaining and accept singledom as my present state. There was nothing I could do about it until the time came for “IT” to change.
 
Just bringing up the topic of being single used to give me a visceral reaction, rooted in the shame and blame that society puts on unmarried, childless young women. In alignment with our 2017 North American Systemic Constellations Conference theme “Bridging the Divide: Healing the Personal and Collective Soul,” I have seen so many divides when it come to finding love and lasting partnership.

Some of these divides – to name a few – are the social push to devalue monogamy and marriage, implicit rules for woman to be married and bear children, career versus family life, as well as bouts between blended families in committed unions.
 
 It wasn’t until I found Family and Systemic Constellations that I understood one part of partner selection that was directly related to epigenetics. Epigenetics is the science behind how humans replicate behaviors of previous generations – consciously or unconsciously. This can only be healed by exploring the family tree and healing old traumas and misunderstandings.
 
Commonly seen themes in Family Constellations sessions that affect romantic relationships include what is called the “interrupted reaching out movement,” which refers to difficulties with attachment, as well as parentification of a child, where the child takes adult responsibilities, and unhealthy family entanglements, which prevent the adult from moving forward into his or her own fulfilling life.
 
The books that most fueled my inquiry were Love's Hidden Symmetry by Bert Hellinger, the German family therapist who developed Family Constellations, and his colleagues Gunthard Weber and Hunter Beaumont, and The Healing Power of the Past by Bertold Ulsamer.
 
Both texts helped me see how we replicate knowingly and unknowingly the relationships we have experienced with our biological family, including the family of origin, extended family and ancestral family. Systemic and Family Constellations quiets the argument of nature versus nurture by connecting each participant with his or her behavioral inheritance.
 
I also realized that the unsupported comments from friends and family arose from their inability to handle the anxiety of not having an answer for me. I decided to stop complaining and accept singledom as my present state. There was nothing I could do about it until the time came for “it” to change.
 
Now, after years of schooling and attaining skills necessary for self-reflection, I have found that, simply put, “It is what it is.”
 
“It” is a temporary state of being that will shift when the time is right. Now I can share my story with people and I can recognize others' grief, a particular type of grief and another divide that is not widely acknowledged — the loneliness and social separation of singledom.
 
The goal of this article is to encourage singles who would like to have a relationship to use Family Constellations for inquiry and investigation. Or if you are already in a relationship, use constellations to further differentiate from your family origin and bond more deeply with your spouse or partner.
 
Family Constellations sessions prove helpful in discovering how our actions are a help or a hindrance to our dream of being happily coupled. While we are single, it is so important to raise our consciousness about the need for compassion and patience for ourselves.
 For singles, it is so important to raise our consciousness, compassion, and patience for different stages of life.

To date, I would say I am a Family Constellations success story. My healed coupled heart smiles at a trek already traveled and revealed.

 

About the author

Melody Allen, MA, PMA, LPC-S, is co-director of the 2017 North American Systemic Constellations Conference. She is a licensed professional counselor in Sugarland, Texas. Her theoretical style blends systems theory, depth psychology, positive psychology, Barbara Brennan Healing Science, mind-body consciousness and Family and Systemic Constellations. Her Ph.D. research is focused on the correlation between epigenetics and family therapy. Melody works with families and individuals seeking life change in her private practice and supervises LPC-interns who are seeking a career in mental health.

 

Museum visit elicits range of feelings -- and what the Constellations Conference might contribute

5/10/2017

By Melody Allen, MA, EAS-C, LPC-S

During winter break, I flew to Washington, D.C., to visit Betsy Hostetler for a weekend work meeting for conference preparation. Betsy and I are co-directors of the North American Systemic Constellations Conference, planned Oct. 5-8 in Virginia.

Our task has been to organize, invite, and appoint a team of volunteers to offer keynotes, featured presentations and panel discussions to the North American audience of systemic constellations, a methodology founded by Bert Hellinger from combined studies in Zulu tradition, transactional analysis and family systems theories. The philosophies are applied in all career disciplines for family and business problem solving.  

In between our planning meetings, Betsy and I had the opportunity to visit the National Museum of African American History and Culture

The museum is devoted to the documentation of African American life, history and culture. It was established to promote and highlight the contributions of African Americans. 
 

The museum has collected more than 36,000 artifacts and nearly 100,000 individuals have become charter members. The Museum opened to the public on September 2016, as the 19th and newest museum of the Smithsonian Institution. The museum has been all the rage for art enthusiasts, educators, museum lovers, American history buffs and cultural activists. 

The wind was blowing so cold on my warm Texas skin as we waited in the supposed VIP line which was just as long as regular admission: I had scored some prime tickets from a long-term client and museum patron. 

As we waited, a checkered audience filed into line:  children on field trips, church groups and individuals all sizes and colors. The museum trek began with a dramatic elevator ride back in time to the bowels of a slave ship. We were immediately drawn into an experiential journey of long ago. As visitors walk the ramps from floor to floor, they are transported along the timeline of slavery to modern-day race relations among blacks and whites in North America.  

The museum was so profound and traumatizing at the same time. It was so hard to see and feel the years of oppression and the abusive nature of mankind. The museum evidenced many offenses toward Black America at the hands of White America: some of these crimes in today’s vernacular would be named human trafficking, labor exploitation, unlawful imprisonment, assault, assault with deadly weapons, rape, police brutality, unfair wage practices, and educational depravity. 

As I walked through the halls, I was filled not only with rage but also with hope since I can function in daily life with some modicum of safety. 

Yet, as I saw the pictures of my ancestral lineage, I began to think of modern-day stories of racism that should not be happening but be as relics in a like museum. I thought about the book entitled The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness which speaks to the over-incarceration of black males, the documentary 13th, which is a play on words about the 13th Amendment that abolishes slavery and refers to a new model of slavery in the privatized prison setting, and all the mothers who have lost their black boys and men to recent police brutality. 

On the other hand, it was also profound to be visiting with Betsy, a tall white woman from the North, with me, a short black woman from the South, and be able to hold honest and frank conversations about related and divergent topics.

The weekend continued with a visit to a movie that Betsy recommended. The movie was "I Am Not Your Negro," a documentary based on author and activist James Baldwin, who was ironically the author of “The Native Son.” Our cinematic event followed a movie on my plane trip to Washington called Loving, about a highly publicized and harassed interracial couple in Virginia, the location of the conference, that took place in the 1950s and 1960s. Although the museum visit was not the intention of the weekend, it definitely was a great background for one of the conference themes, that of social justice. My story of the museum is only one of the constructs that we have to uncover to heal America.

As a believer in the Jungian concept of synchronicity, it felt so relevant and apropos that as leaders of this 2017 North American Systemic Constellations Conference we would be exploring differences and cultural themes. 

It also fit with the conference theme of “Bridging the Divide: Healing the Personal and Collective Soul,” as well as our desire as conference co-directors to explore social justice. We were not just talking but also living how to have difficult conversations and facilitate understanding, compassion, resilience and responsible communication. 

I was happy that Betsy had a genuine interest in visiting the museum and not just a cursory interest. I don’t particularly identity myself as an activist but rather an academician. However, when it comes to having a voice, sometimes to have a voice the two worlds meet. So the purpose of this blog article is to further invite and entice each person’s truth into the conference space. 

It was a great foreshadowing about the type of work that I believe can come out of the North American Systemic Constellations Conference. If there are any people who feel like the conference can't hold their story, please know that the conference steering team is preparing to be expansive and diverse in invitation and execution.